About Consation Education
Your comprehensive relationship communication and sexual wellness platform featuring partner management, session planning, date night coordination, interactive games, certification programs, and educational resources for healthy intimate relationships
Our Mission
Consation exists to provide comprehensive, accurate, and judgment-free education about BDSM relationships. We believe that everyone deserves access to quality information about consent, safety, and healthy dynamics regardless of their experience level.
Our platform combines educational resources, practical tools, partner collaboration features, session planning capabilities, date night coordination, interactive games, certification programs, and secure communication to help individuals and couples explore BDSM and strengthen relationships safely and confidently. We prioritize safety, consent, communication, and privacy above all else.
Platform Features
Personal Profile
Create your profile with customizable identity fields including gender, sex, sexual orientation, pronouns, and BDSM role. Each user gets a unique ID for easy partner connection.
Partner Management
Add unlimited partners by searching their unique ID. Control what you share with each partner including preferences, toys, practices, and test results.
Real-Time Chat
Communicate privately with your partners through secure, real-time messaging. Discuss boundaries, share experiences, and coordinate activities safely.
Session Planning & Tracking
Plan sessions with partners by selecting activities, adding notes, and getting dual signatures. Generate PDF guides, track completion, rate experiences, and review past sessions.
Contract Builder & Sharing
Create detailed BDSM contracts with templates or custom clauses. Share contracts with partners for collaborative editing and dual signing.
Preference Discovery
Take comprehensive preference tests to discover your interests. Track your ratings, comments, and history. Share results with trusted partners.
Comprehensive Database
Explore detailed information about 300+ kinks, 100+ toys, and various practices. Each entry includes safety information, ratings, and personal notes.
Safety Guidelines
Access essential safety protocols, emergency procedures, and risk management guides for all BDSM activities. Safety always comes first.
Granular Sharing Controls
Full control over what you share. Choose to share preferences, toys, practices, and test results individually with each partner.
Secure & Private
Enterprise-grade security with encrypted connections. Your data is protected with Row Level Security. You control access to everything.
Date Night Planner
Create romantic date nights with partners. Choose themes, select activities, add Spotify playlists, plan meals from the couples cookbook, and coordinate every detail.
Positions Database
Explore detailed visual guides for various positions with difficulty ratings, descriptions, and tips. Add favorites and incorporate them into session planning.
Interactive Games
Play Truth or Dare with 3 spice levels, answer 100 intimate questions for deeper connection, and enjoy Sex Bingo for adventurous couples.
Certification System
Test your knowledge and earn certifications in Safety and BDSM practices. Display badges on your profile with beginner, intermediate, and expert levels.
Couples Cookbook
25 recipes designed for cooking together. From romantic dinners to fun cooking experiences, strengthen your bond through culinary collaboration.
Our Values
Consent is Everything
We emphasize enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing consent in all BDSM activities. Every resource reinforces the importance of clear communication and mutual agreement.
Safety Over Everything
Physical and emotional safety are non-negotiable. We provide detailed safety protocols, risk assessments, and emergency procedures for all activities.
Judgment-Free Education
Everyone's journey is unique. We provide factual, comprehensive information without judgment about preferences, interests, or experience levels.
Inclusive & Accessible
BDSM is for everyone. Our resources are designed to be inclusive of all genders, orientations, experience levels, and relationship structures.
How to Use Consation
Create Your Account
Sign up with email to create your secure account. Set up your profile with your display name, role, and identity information. You'll receive a unique ID that partners can use to find you.
Start with Education
Begin by reading our safety guidelines and educational resources. Understanding the basics of consent, communication, and risk management is essential before exploring activities.
Discover Your Preferences
Take the comprehensive preference test to explore your interests. Rate kinks, toys, and practices. Add personal comments and track your journey over time.
Add Partners
Search for partners using their unique ID. Send requests and customize what you share with each partner. You can add unlimited partners and manage sharing permissions individually.
Chat & Collaborate
Use real-time chat to communicate with partners about boundaries, desires, and activities. Share test results, discuss preferences, and build trust through open communication.
Create & Share Contracts
Build relationship contracts using templates or custom clauses. Share contracts with partners for review, collaborative editing, and mutual signing. All contracts are stored securely.
Plan & Track Sessions
Propose sessions with specific activities, get dual signatures, and download comprehensive PDF guides with safety tips. After completion, rate your experience, mark enjoyed activities, and keep a detailed history for future reference.
Plan Date Nights & Play Games
Create romantic date nights with complete planning including themes, activities, music, and meals. Play interactive games like Truth or Dare, 100 Questions, and Sex Bingo to deepen connection and add excitement.
Earn Certifications
Test your knowledge with certification exams in Safety and BDSM practices. Earn badges to display on your profile and demonstrate your expertise across beginner, intermediate, and expert levels.
Keep Learning & Growing
BDSM and relationships are journeys of continuous learning. Regularly review safety protocols, update your preferences, revisit contracts, explore new positions, and stay informed about best practices.
Partner System & Collaboration Features
Adding Partners
- • Search users by their unique ID
- • Send partner requests with custom sharing settings
- • Accept or decline incoming requests
- • Add unlimited partners to your network
Managing Partners
- • View partner profiles and roles
- • Edit sharing permissions anytime
- • Remove partners when needed
- • See unread message counts
Sharing Controls
- • Profile information (always shared)
- • Kinks & Preferences (optional)
- • Toys Collection (optional)
- • Practices (optional)
- • Test Results & History (optional)
Communication
- • Real-time encrypted messaging
- • Message read receipts
- • Share contracts for co-signing
- • Discuss boundaries and preferences
Session Planning
- • Propose sessions with selected activities
- • Dual signature requirement
- • Generate PDF session guides
- • Add custom notes and instructions
Session Tracking
- • Rate completed sessions (1-10 stars)
- • Mark enjoyed activities
- • Leave detailed feedback
- • Review and repeat past sessions
Date Night Planning
- • Create custom date nights with themes
- • Invite partners to collaborate
- • Add activities, music, and meals
- • Spotify playlist integration
Interactive Games
- • Truth or Dare (Mild, Spicy, Wild)
- • 100 Intimate Questions
- • Sex Bingo game
- • Track game progress and history
Couples Resources
- • 25 recipes in Couples Cookbook
- • 20 pre-planned date ideas
- • Position database with visuals
- • Compatibility analysis tools
Free vs Premium
Free Plan
Profile View
Create and view your personal profile
One Preference Test (100 Questions)
Take the basic test once with core preference questions
Beginner Content
Access all beginner-level kinks, positions, and practices
Template Contracts (PDF)
Use pre-made contract templates with PDF export
Test retakes and history
Extended preference questions (100 additional)
Certification tests and badges
Intermediate & advanced content
Custom contract builder
DOCX export
Partner management, contracts, and sessions
Premium Plan
Try free for 3 days, then $9.99/month
Everything in Free
Plus all premium features below
Unlimited Test Retakes
Take the preference test as many times as you want
Extended Preference Test (200 Questions)
100 additional questions for deeper insights into specific roles like Voyeur, Exhibitionist, Little/Daddy, Pet Play, Primal, and more
Full Test History
View and compare all your past test results
Certification Tests
Earn certifications by testing your knowledge in Safety and Learn categories with Beginner, Intermediate, and Expert levels
Certification Badges
Display earned certifications on your profile for others to see your expertise and knowledge
All Content Levels
Access intermediate, advanced, and expert content
Custom Contract Builder
Create fully personalized relationship agreements
DOCX Export
Export contracts as editable Word documents
Full Profile Features
Partners, sessions, contracts, preferences, and date nights tabs
Complete Date Night System
Full planner with partner invitations, themes, Spotify integration, and activity coordination
Interactive Games
Truth or Dare (3 levels), 100 Intimate Questions, and Sex Bingo
Couples Cookbook
25 recipes designed for cooking together
Date Ideas Library
20 fully planned dates with timelines and budgets
Share with One Partner
Invite a partner to share your Premium for free
Important Disclaimers
Legal: BDSM contracts created on this platform are not legally binding documents. They are communication and negotiation tools only.
Medical: This platform does not provide medical advice. Consult healthcare professionals for medical concerns.
Age: This platform is for adults 18+ only. All content assumes adult participants.
Privacy & Security: Your data is encrypted and protected with Row Level Security. Only you and partners you explicitly authorize can access your information. We never sell or share your data with third parties.
Data Storage: User accounts, preferences, contracts, and messages are securely stored in our database. You maintain full control over your data and can delete your account at any time.
Communication: Messages with partners are private and secure. Always verify partner identity before sharing sensitive information. Never share login credentials.
Session Planning: Planned sessions and PDF guides are tools for communication and preparation only. Both partners must provide explicit consent before, during, and after any activities. Either partner can withdraw consent at any time. Session plans do not override the need for ongoing communication and consent.
Responsibility: You are responsible for your own safety and the safety of your partners. Use this information wisely and always prioritize consent and communication.
