Consent & intimacy education
Better intimacy starts with better conversations.
Consation is a free, evidence-informed guide to consent, communication and BDSM safety. Learn the fundamentals, discover what you want, and plan together with tools built around clear, mutual agreements.
Free forever. No ads. Adults 18+.
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100% free
Every tool and guide, no subscription.
Private by design
Cookieless stats. Your data is visible only to you and the partners you choose.
Grounded in consent frameworks
SSC, RACK and PRICK, explained plainly.
English & Deutsch
Every page in both languages.
Three ways to start
Learn it, practice it safely, talk about it.
- 01
Learn the basics
A plain-language library of kinks, practices, toys and power dynamics, each with safety and consent notes.
Browse the library - 02
Put safety first
Safe words, aftercare, risk awareness and emergency basics, plus helplines for your country.
Open the safety handbook - 03
Talk and plan together
A preference test, written agreements and conversation prompts that make the hard talks easier.
Explore the tools
- 334
- library entries
- 76
- safety guides
- 167
- situations
- 160
- conversation prompts
The Situation Room
Stuck in a hard moment? You're not the first.
Real relationship situations with words you can actually say, next steps and safety notes.
See all situationsTools
Practical tools for real relationships
Small, practical tools for the conversations that matter. Everything is free.
- Preference testDiscover your roles and interests in 10 minutes.
- AgreementsTemplates and a builder for clear relationship agreements.
- User manualSix prompts that tell partners how you work best.
- Conversation startersQuestions for first dates and deep talks.
- Couples gamesPlayful ways to talk about desire and boundaries.
- Date nightsIdeas, recipes and a planner for your next date.
Safety first
Every scene needs a way to stop.
The traffic-light system is the simplest safety tool there is. Agree on it before you play, and honor it every time.
Questions, answered
Is Consation really free?
Yes. Every guide, tool and feature is free. There are no subscriptions, no paywalls and no ads.
Who is Consation for?
Adults who want to communicate better about intimacy: people who are curious about kink, couples exploring together, and experienced practitioners who want reliable safety references.
Is this medical or legal advice?
No. Consation offers general education. For health concerns, talk to a doctor; in an emergency, contact local emergency services.
What happens to my data?
Your library, tests and agreements are private to you. Partners only see what you explicitly share with them, and you can delete your account at any time.
Do I need an account?
No. Learning content, the Situation Room, games and the preference test work without an account. An account lets you save results, connect with a partner and sign agreements together.
Start with one honest conversation.
Create a free account to save your results, invite a partner and build your first agreement together.