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Longer guides on the questions that matter most: telling kink from abuse, sexual health, play with a disability or chronic illness, queer inclusion, finding professionals who understand, and the legal basics in Germany, Austria and Switzerland.
- Kink or abuse? How to tell the differenceHow consensual kink differs from abuse: what real consent needs, warning signs, a short self-check, what to do after a violation and where to get help.Read
- Sexual health for kinky and curious peopleSTIs, testing, barriers, PrEP and PEP, U=U, vaccinations, contraception and blood safety in kink: a calm guide with where to get tested in DACH.Read
- Kink with a disability or chronic illnessKink with a disability or chronic illness: negotiating health needs, energy, safe restraint and impact, non-verbal safewords, care roles and aftercare.Read
- Queer, trans and nonbinary in kink: an inclusive guideInclusive negotiation, trans and nonbinary bodies, binders and bondage, outing, community and queer counseling in Germany, Austria and Switzerland.Read
- Finding kink-aware doctors, therapists and counselorsHow to find kink-aware doctors and therapists, what to disclose and keep private, and what to say in the emergency department, in therapy and at checkups.Read
Legal basics
Legal basics in Germany, Austria and Switzerland: consent, age and intimate images
What the law in Germany, Austria and Switzerland says about sexual consent, age limits, BDSM and bodily harm, written agreements and intimate images.
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