Before you start: Talk it through when you are both calm and sober, agree on a safeword and a non-verbal signal, and keep safety shears, water and a phone within reach.
What you need
- Office and boss role-play: the library entry covers the basics In the library
- Light role-play tips for first scenes In the library
- A table or desk, a chair and a lamp to set the after-hours mood
- Simple costume pieces such as a blazer, a tie, glasses or a lanyard
- Props such as a notepad, a folder of blank paper, a pen and a cup of coffee
- Two invented character names, job titles and a company that does not exist
- An index card on the desk with the out-of-character words and your limits
- Praise or playful criticism, depending on the tone you choose In the library
Preparation
Choose the setup together: a late performance review, a job interview, an overdue report or a difficult client.
Invent the characters, the company and one or two details, so nothing points to a real job.
Set the room: clear the table, dim the main light and lay out the props.
Write a short outline: how the scene opens, two or three moments in the middle and how it ends.
Keep work laptops, work phones and work accounts out of the room entirely.
Agree on this first
- Who plays which role, and would you like to swap next time?
- What tone do you want: flirty, strict, comic or a mix?
- Which words step out of character? For example, "pause" for a short break and red to end the scene. Practice saying them once.
- Which words, insults or threats are off-limits, such as anything about real job loss, money, appearance or real colleagues?
- Does the scene stay verbal and flirty, or may it move to kissing, touching or sex if both of you want that in the moment? Agree on how to ask.
- Are there real experiences of workplace harassment or job stress that this setting might touch?
- How will you check in without breaking the mood, for example a tap on the desk answered with a nod?
Safety checks
- Never play at a real workplace or use real names, and keep messages or photos off work devices and accounts.
- Confirm that both of you actually want your roles rather than going along to please the other.
- If the boss character's criticism starts to sound like real criticism, step out and reset.
- Keep the card with the out-of-character words visible for the whole scene.
- If either of you seems genuinely upset, stop at once and reconnect as yourselves.
The scene, step by step
The step-by-step flow is for adults
It describes sexual and BDSM actions in detail. It is shown only after you confirm that you are 18 or older. The plan above is everything you need to decide whether this scene is right for you.
Aftercare
- End with a clear out-of-character moment: take off the blazer or glasses and use your own names.
- Say one thing you liked about each other's character and one thing about each other as yourselves.
- Share a drink or a snack on the sofa instead of at the "desk" to mark the return to equals.
- Talk briefly about what to keep, what to drop and whether to swap roles next time.
Variations
- Gentler: a five-minute interview with no physical contact, just to practice staying in character.
- Swap roles so the usual follower gets to be the boss.
- Add structure with written "office rules" and playful consequences such as staying late or writing lines.
- Combine the scene with light discipline or restraint that you have already negotiated and tried elsewhere.
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