Key points
- Ask before touching anyone or their equipment
- Don't interrupt scenes
- Respect privacy and anonymity
- Follow venue-specific rules
- Clean up after yourself
In detail
- Consent applies everywhere: Ask before touching, don't assume interest, respect no
- Watching scenes: Keep respectful distance, be quiet, don't interrupt, move if asked
- Photography: Usually forbidden unless specified, always ask permission
- Equipment: Don't touch without asking owner, clean after use, report damage
- Respect space: Clean up your area, dispose of trash properly, don't monopolize equipment
- Dress codes: Follow venue requirements, usually fetish wear or all black
- Privacy: Don't discuss who you saw there, use scene names, respect anonymity
Warnings
- Violating etiquette can get you banned
- Non-consensual touching is assault
- Photography without consent is a serious violation
- Outing people is dangerous
- Disrespect reflects poorly on the entire community
Resources and next steps
- Ask dungeon monitors if unsure
- Observe before participating
- Read venue rules carefully
- New person orientations often available
- When in doubt, ask