Relationship Agreement
Daddy Dom/little Contract (DD/lg)
Date:
Daddy Dom / little (DD/lg)
This Daddy Dom/little girl Contract establishes a consensual caregiver dynamic between a Daddy Dom (the nurturing authority figure) and a little (the one who regresses to a younger headspace). This agreement acknowledges that age play is a form of stress relief, vulnerability, and connection that is entirely separate from actual children. This agreement is a communication tool and not a legally binding contract.
Purpose
The purpose of this contract is to create a safe, nurturing environment for age regression and caregiver dynamics. Both parties seek comfort, protection, guidance, and playfulness within this relationship. The Daddy provides structure, discipline, and care while the little offers trust, obedience, and affection.
Important legal notice
This document is a personal agreement between consenting adults. It is not a legally binding contract.
All activities must comply with local laws. Both parties must be at least 18 years old.
Parties involved
| Partner 1 Name: Date of birth: Contact: | Partner 2 Name: Date of birth: Contact: |
Core principles Mandatory
This agreement is based on the following principles:
- SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
- RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
- Enthusiastic, informed, ongoing consent
- The right to withdraw consent at any time
Safe words and signals Mandatory
| Red (stop immediately): | |
|---|---|
| Yellow (slow down or check in): | |
| Green (continue): |
Critical: Safe words must be respected immediately, without question or hesitation.
Hard limits
Partner 1's hard limits
Partner 2's hard limits
Activities
Activities that often come up in this dynamic. Tick what applies, cross out what does not and add notes or limits.
- Age Regression: Little enters younger headspace (age range negotiated)Notes and limits:
- Nurturing & Care: Daddy provides comfort, protection, and guidanceNotes and limits:
- Rules & Bedtime: Structured routines including sleep schedulesNotes and limits:
- Rewards & Punishments: Positive reinforcement and gentle disciplineNotes and limits:
- Playtime: Games, coloring, stuffies, age-appropriate activitiesNotes and limits:
- Storytime & Cuddles: Reading together and physical affectionNotes and limits:
- Meal Management: Daddy decides meals, may include hand-feedingNotes and limits:
- Outfit Selection: Daddy chooses little's clothesNotes and limits:
- Diaper Play: Optional use of diapers in little spaceNotes and limits:
- Pacifier Use: Comfort item for regressionNotes and limits:
- Spankings (Discipline): Age-appropriate punishmentNotes and limits:
- Sexual Activities: Adult activities outside of little space, or as negotiatedNotes and limits:
- Other:
Toys and equipment
Tick what you want to use and note specific items or limits.
- Stuffed Animals: Comfort items and friends for littleNotes and limits:
- Coloring Books & Crayons: Age-appropriate activitiesNotes and limits:
- Pacifier: Comfort and regression toolNotes and limits:
- Sippy Cup / Bottle: For drinks during little timeNotes and limits:
- Blankie: Security blanket or comfort itemNotes and limits:
- Age-Appropriate Clothes: Onesies, cute pajamas, etc.Notes and limits:
- Paddle (Gentle): For discipline during little spaceNotes and limits:
- Sticker Chart: Reward system for good behaviorNotes and limits:
- Children's Books: For storytimeNotes and limits:
- Games & Puzzles: Age-appropriate entertainmentNotes and limits:
- Other:
Rules and protocols
Common rules for this dynamic. Keep, change or remove them as you agree.
- Little will use Daddy's chosen title (Daddy, Papa, etc.)
- Bedtime at agreed hour: no staying up late without permission
- No swearing or bad words when in little space
- Ask Daddy before eating sweets or snacks
- Clean up toys after playtime
- Be honest with Daddy about feelings and needs
- Use manners (please, thank you, etc.)
- No dangerous activities without Daddy's supervision
- Take naps when Daddy says if grumpy or tired
- Follow Daddy's clothing choices during little time
- Homework/chores must be completed before playtime
- Tell Daddy when feeling little or need to regress
- Additional rule:
Little Space & Age Range
Defining the little's regression and headspace:
Little's Age Range in Little Space:
Youngest age: years old
Oldest age: years old
Most common age: years old
Triggers for Entering Little Space:
- Stress or overwhelm
- Comfort and safety needs
- Scheduled little time (weekends, evenings)
- When wearing little clothes or using little items
- After difficult day (work, social stress)
- Other:
How little Communicates Little Space:
- Verbal announcement: "I'm feeling little"
- Behavioral cues: [baby talk, holding stuffie, etc.]
- Texting/asking to go into little space
- Physical cues: [curling up, thumb sucking, etc.]
Activities Not Permitted During Little Space:
- Sexual activities (little space is non-sexual)
- Adult responsibilities (bills, work emails, etc.)
- Difficult conversations or conflicts
- Other:
Activities Only Permitted During Little Space:
- Pacifier use
- Diaper wearing
- Baby talk
- Certain punishments (spanking)
- Other:
Note: Consent remains adult consent. Little can always use safe word and return to adult headspace.
Caregiver Responsibilities
Daddy's duties and responsibilities toward little:
Physical Care:
- Ensure little eats healthy meals (even when little resists veggies)
- Maintain bedtime schedule for adequate sleep
- Encourage self-care (bathing, teeth brushing, etc.)
- Monitor little's safety during regression
- Provide comfort when little is scared or sad
- Give cuddles, hugs, and physical affection
Emotional Care:
- Listen to little's feelings and validate them
- Provide reassurance and security
- Help little process big emotions
- Offer praise and encouragement
- Create safe space for vulnerability
- Never shame little for regression needs
Structure & Guidance:
- Set age-appropriate rules and expectations
- Provide consistent discipline (loving but firm)
- Create routines and schedules
- Help little balance adult responsibilities and little time
- Make decisions when little feels overwhelmed
- Guide little toward healthy choices
Play & Fun:
- Engage in playtime activities with little
- Read stories and do voices
- Play games, color, do crafts together
- Take little on fun outings (park, zoo, etc.)
- Encourage creativity and imagination
- Make little feel special and loved
Discipline Approach:
Daddy's discipline is loving, never cruel or abusive. Methods include:
- Time-outs in corner or quiet space
- Loss of privileges (no TV, no dessert)
- Early bedtime
- Extra chores
- Gentle spanking (on bottom only, never harsh)
- Disappointed/stern voice
- Making little write lines or apologies
Note: Discipline helps little feel cared for and secure, not scared or harmed.
Rewards System & Positive Reinforcement
Encouraging good behavior and making little feel proud:
Sticker Chart / Point System:
Little earns stickers/points for:
- Following bedtime rules
- Eating vegetables
- Completing chores
- Being polite and using manners
- Trying hard even when difficult
- Telling the truth
- Being brave
- Other:
Rewards for Earned Stickers/Points:
- 5 points = Small treat (candy, extra story, stay up 15 min late)
- 10 points = Medium reward (special outing, new stuffy, favorite dinner)
- 20 points = Big reward (day trip, special present, etc.)
- Weekly good behavior = Special Daddy-little date
Praise & Affection:
Daddy will regularly:
- Tell little "good girl/boy" for positive behaviors
- Give hugs, kisses, and cuddles as rewards
- Display little's artwork/accomplishments
- Celebrate little's achievements
- Make little feel proud and loved
- Use positive reinforcement over punishment
Special Days:
- Little's "birthday" in little space:
- Special Daddy-little monthly date
- Holiday celebrations in little space
- Other special occasions:
Aftercare requirements Mandatory
Partner 1's aftercare needs
Partner 2's aftercare needs
Time and commitment
Tick the dynamic you agree on.
- 24/7 dynamic: The power exchange is part of everyday life, not only scenes, within the limits and protocols you agree on.
- Bedroom only: The dynamic applies only in intimate or sexual settings. Outside of that, you relate as equals.
- Scheduled scenes: You plan scenes in advance, with a set time, place and negotiation beforehand.
- Casual / as desired: Scenes happen when you both feel like it, with no fixed schedule. Each scene is still negotiated.
- Long distance: You live apart and maintain the dynamic through messages, calls, video and planned visits.
Mandatory safety protocols Non-negotiable
- Regular communication: partners check in regularly about comfort, boundaries and desires.
- Respect for safe words: safe words are honored immediately, without question.
- Aftercare: appropriate aftercare is provided after every scene.
- Respect for boundaries: all stated limits and boundaries are respected.
- Ongoing consent: consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
- No activities under the influence: no scenes while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
- Emergency procedures: both partners know the emergency contacts and procedures.
Signatures
By signing below, both parties confirm that they have read, understood and agree to everything in this agreement.
Partner 1:
Partner 2:
Important reminders
- This agreement can be changed at any time by mutual agreement.
- Review it regularly, for example every 3 to 6 months.
- Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
- Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
- Always put safety, consent and mutual respect first.