Relationship Agreement
Mommy Domme/little Contract (MD/lb)
Date:
Mommy Domme / little boy (MD/lb)
This Mommy Domme/little boy Contract establishes a consensual maternal caregiver dynamic between a Mommy Domme (the nurturing maternal authority) and a little boy (the one who regresses to a younger headspace). This agreement acknowledges that maternal age play provides comfort, structure, and a safe space for vulnerability. This agreement is a communication tool and not a legally binding contract.
Purpose
The purpose of this contract is to create a loving, nurturing environment where the little boy can safely regress and be cared for by Mommy. Mommy provides maternal love, structure, discipline, and protection while little boy offers trust, obedience, and affection.
Important legal notice
This document is a personal agreement between consenting adults. It is not a legally binding contract.
All activities must comply with local laws. Both parties must be at least 18 years old.
Parties involved
| Partner 1 Name: Date of birth: Contact: | Partner 2 Name: Date of birth: Contact: |
Core principles Mandatory
This agreement is based on the following principles:
- SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
- RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
- Enthusiastic, informed, ongoing consent
- The right to withdraw consent at any time
Safe words and signals Mandatory
| Red (stop immediately): | |
|---|---|
| Yellow (slow down or check in): | |
| Green (continue): |
Critical: Safe words must be respected immediately, without question or hesitation.
Hard limits
Partner 1's hard limits
Partner 2's hard limits
Activities
Activities that often come up in this dynamic. Tick what applies, cross out what does not and add notes or limits.
- Age Regression: Little boy enters younger headspaceNotes and limits:
- Maternal Nurturing: Mommy provides comfort, love, and careNotes and limits:
- Rules & Bedtime Routine: Structured daily scheduleNotes and limits:
- Discipline & Correction: Gentle but firm maternal disciplineNotes and limits:
- Playtime Activities: Games, toys, age-appropriate funNotes and limits:
- Cuddle Time: Physical affection and bondingNotes and limits:
- Feeding/Meal Control: Mommy ensures little eats properlyNotes and limits:
- Bath Time: Mommy supervises or assists with bathingNotes and limits:
- Nursing/Breastfeeding Play: Comfort nursing at Mommy's breastNotes and limits:
- Diaper Changes: Optional diaper play with Mommy's careNotes and limits:
- Spanking (Discipline): Over Mommy's knee for bad behaviorNotes and limits:
- Praise & Rewards: Positive reinforcement for good behaviorNotes and limits:
- Other:
Toys and equipment
Tick what you want to use and note specific items or limits.
- Stuffed Animals: Comfort toys and friendsNotes and limits:
- Action Figures / Toy Cars: Age-appropriate boy toysNotes and limits:
- Pacifier: Comfort and regression aidNotes and limits:
- Bottle / Sippy Cup: For drinks during little timeNotes and limits:
- Special Blanket: Security blanket from MommyNotes and limits:
- Little Boy Clothes: Onesies, overalls, comfy jammiesNotes and limits:
- Paddle or Hairbrush: For maternal disciplineNotes and limits:
- Reward Chart: Visual tracking of good behaviorNotes and limits:
- Storybooks: For bedtime stories with MommyNotes and limits:
- Building Blocks / Legos: Creative play activitiesNotes and limits:
- Other:
Rules and protocols
Common rules for this dynamic. Keep, change or remove them as you agree.
- Little boy will call partner Mommy or Ma'am
- Bedtime is at [time]: no arguing with Mommy about sleep
- Use indoor voice: no yelling or tantrums
- Ask Mommy before having treats or snacks
- Put toys away after playing
- Always tell Mommy the truth; lying leads to a consequence
- Mind your manners (please, thank you, yes Mommy)
- No roughhousing inside the house
- Listen when Mommy is talking: no interrupting
- Mommy chooses clothes during little time
- Finish homework/chores before TV or games
- Come to Mommy when hurt, scared, or need comfort
- Additional rule:
Little boy's Age Range & Regression
Defining regression parameters and little boy's headspace:
Age Range When Little:
Youngest: years old
Oldest: years old
Typical: years old
Little Space Triggers:
- Need for comfort after stressful day
- Seeking Mommy's care and attention
- Scheduled little time (evenings, weekends)
- When wearing little clothes
- When playing with little toys
- After conflict or difficulty
- Other:
Entering/Exiting Little Space:
Little boy signals little space by:
Mommy can tell little boy is regressing when:
To exit little space:
Emergency exit from little space: Use safe word
Boundaries During Little Space:
When little, the following are off limits:
- Sexual activity (little space is innocent)
- Adult responsibilities
- Stressful conversations
- Work-related tasks
- Other:
Regression Activities:
- Playing with toys
- Coloring and crafts
- Watching cartoons
- Snuggling with Mommy
- Nursing/comfort at Mommy's breast
- Bathtime with Mommy's help
- Bedtime stories and cuddles
- Other:
Mommy's Maternal Duties
Mommy's responsibilities in caring for her little boy:
Daily Care & Nurturing:
- Wake little boy gently and help him start the day
- Ensure proper nutrition (healthy meals even if he protests)
- Monitor hygiene (teeth brushing, bathing, etc.)
- Enforce bedtime for adequate rest
- Provide physical affection (hugs, cuddles, kisses)
- Keep little boy safe from harm
- Check in on little boy's emotional state
- Offer comfort items (stuffie, blankie, pacifier)
Emotional Support:
- Listen when little boy shares feelings
- Validate emotions (it's okay to be sad/scared/angry)
- Comfort when little boy is upset
- Celebrate achievements and successes
- Provide reassurance and security
- Never shame little boy for his needs
- Help process big feelings in age-appropriate ways
Structure & Discipline:
Mommy sets loving but firm boundaries:
- Establish clear, consistent rules
- Follow through with consequences
- Discipline with love, never anger or cruelty
- Explain why rules exist (to keep you safe/healthy)
- Praise good behavior frequently
- Provide structure and routine
- Make decisions when little feels overwhelmed
Playtime & Fun:
- Engage in play activities with little boy
- Read bedtime stories with character voices
- Play games, build Legos, have adventures
- Take little boy on special outings
- Encourage imagination and creativity
- Make little boy feel cherished and special
- Create happy memories together
Discipline Methods (When little misbehaves):
- Gentle scolding and disappointed Mommy voice
- Time-out in corner (1 minute per year of little age)
- Loss of privileges (no TV, no dessert)
- Early bedtime
- Over-the-knee spanking (gentle, on bottom only)
- Writing lines or apology letters
- Extra chores
Note: All discipline is loving correction, never abuse.
Special Mommy/little boy Activities
Bonding activities and special aspects of this dynamic:
Nursing & Comfort:
- Little boy may nurse at Mommy's breast for comfort
- This is non-sexual bonding and soothing
- Nursing time: [Before bed, when upset, scheduled, as needed]
- Duration: [As long as little needs, set time limit, etc.]
- Boundaries:
Bath Time:
- Mommy supervises bath time
- Mommy helps wash little boy
- Mommy washes little boy completely
- Bath toys and bubbles provided
- Rubber ducky time
- Special bath time songs or games
Bedtime Routine:
- Bath time at pm
- Brush teeth with Mommy's supervision
- Put on pajamas (Mommy helps)
- Storytime: stories
- Cuddles and talking about the day
- Tucked in with stuffie and blankie
- Goodnight kiss from Mommy
- Lights out at pm
- Night light: Yes / No
- Mommy checks on little boy before her bedtime
Special Traditions:
- Pancake Sunday with Mommy
- Monday night movie with popcorn
- Friday night is boys' choice (pick activity)
- Monthly special Mommy-son outing
- Holiday celebrations in little space
- Birthday party in little space
- Other special rituals:
Reward System:
Good behavior earns:
- Gold stars on chart
- Praise from Mommy ("such a good boy!")
- Extra story at bedtime
- Special treat (cookie, candy, etc.)
- Stay up 15 minutes past bedtime
- Pick dinner menu
- New toy or stuffie
- Special day out with Mommy
10 gold stars = big reward:
Aftercare requirements Mandatory
Partner 1's aftercare needs
Partner 2's aftercare needs
Time and commitment
Tick the dynamic you agree on.
- 24/7 dynamic: The power exchange is part of everyday life, not only scenes, within the limits and protocols you agree on.
- Bedroom only: The dynamic applies only in intimate or sexual settings. Outside of that, you relate as equals.
- Scheduled scenes: You plan scenes in advance, with a set time, place and negotiation beforehand.
- Casual / as desired: Scenes happen when you both feel like it, with no fixed schedule. Each scene is still negotiated.
- Long distance: You live apart and maintain the dynamic through messages, calls, video and planned visits.
Mandatory safety protocols Non-negotiable
- Regular communication: partners check in regularly about comfort, boundaries and desires.
- Respect for safe words: safe words are honored immediately, without question.
- Aftercare: appropriate aftercare is provided after every scene.
- Respect for boundaries: all stated limits and boundaries are respected.
- Ongoing consent: consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
- No activities under the influence: no scenes while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
- Emergency procedures: both partners know the emergency contacts and procedures.
Signatures
By signing below, both parties confirm that they have read, understood and agree to everything in this agreement.
Partner 1:
Partner 2:
Important reminders
- This agreement can be changed at any time by mutual agreement.
- Review it regularly, for example every 3 to 6 months.
- Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
- Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
- Always put safety, consent and mutual respect first.