Relationship Agreement
Service Submissive Contract
Date:
Dominant / service submissive
This Service Submissive Contract establishes a consensual relationship between a Dominant (who receives service) and a service submissive (who finds fulfillment in serving). This agreement acknowledges that service submission is a valid form of power exchange where the act of service itself is the primary expression of submission. This agreement is a communication tool and not a legally binding contract.
Purpose
The purpose of this contract is to define the scope and nature of service provided, including tasks, standards, protocols, and expectations. The service submissive finds deep satisfaction in being useful and serving the Dominant's needs and comfort.
Important legal notice
This document is a personal agreement between consenting adults. It is not a legally binding contract.
All activities must comply with local laws. Both parties must be at least 18 years old.
Parties involved
| Partner 1 Name: Date of birth: Contact: | Partner 2 Name: Date of birth: Contact: |
Core principles Mandatory
This agreement is based on the following principles:
- SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
- RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
- Enthusiastic, informed, ongoing consent
- The right to withdraw consent at any time
Safe words and signals Mandatory
| Red (stop immediately): | |
|---|---|
| Yellow (slow down or check in): | |
| Green (continue): |
Critical: Safe words must be respected immediately, without question or hesitation.
Hard limits
Partner 1's hard limits
Partner 2's hard limits
Activities
Activities that often come up in this dynamic. Tick what applies, cross out what does not and add notes or limits.
- Household Service: Cleaning, organizing, maintaining the homeNotes and limits:
- Meal Service: Cooking, serving meals, kitchen managementNotes and limits:
- Personal Service: Assisting with dressing, bathing, groomingNotes and limits:
- Butler/Maid Service: Formal service with protocolsNotes and limits:
- Task Completion: Assigned duties and projectsNotes and limits:
- Anticipatory Service: Anticipating needs before being askedNotes and limits:
- Erotic Service: Sexual pleasure and satisfactionNotes and limits:
- Administrative Service: Managing calendar, correspondence, etc.Notes and limits:
- Fetish Service: Foot worship, boot blacking, etc.Notes and limits:
- Protocol & Ritual: Formal behaviors and ceremoniesNotes and limits:
- Other:
Toys and equipment
Tick what you want to use and note specific items or limits.
- Service Attire: Uniform, apron, formal service clothingNotes and limits:
- Collar: Symbol of service commitmentNotes and limits:
- Cleaning Supplies: Tools for household serviceNotes and limits:
- Serving Tray: For formal meal serviceNotes and limits:
- Kneeling Pad: For protocol positionsNotes and limits:
- Task List/Journal: Tracking assignments and completionNotes and limits:
- Timer: For task efficiency trainingNotes and limits:
- Other:
Rules and protocols
Common rules for this dynamic. Keep, change or remove them as you agree.
- Submissive will complete all assigned tasks to Dominant's standards
- Submissive will ask for clarification if task expectations are unclear
- Submissive will report task completion to Dominant
- Submissive will anticipate Dominant's needs when possible
- Submissive will maintain service attire/appearance standards
- Submissive will accept feedback and correction gracefully
- Dominant will provide clear task instructions and expectations
- Dominant will acknowledge good service and completed tasks
- Dominant will provide feedback to help submissive improve
- Regular task reviews will occur weekly/monthly
- Submissive may respectfully ask for help if task is beyond capabilities
- Self-care is required: service should not lead to burnout
- Additional rule:
Service Categories & Expectations
Defining the types of service and standards:
Household Service:
- Cleaning (vacuuming, dusting, mopping)
- Frequency: Daily / Weekly / As assigned
- Rooms: All / Specific:
- Standards: [Detailed/moderate/basic]
- Laundry and Wardrobe Care
- Washing, folding, putting away
- Ironing: Yes / No / Specific items
- Shoe care and polishing
- Kitchen and Meal Service
- Meal planning: Yes / No / Collaborative
- Grocery shopping: submissive / Together / Dominant
- Cooking: meals per week
- Serving style: [Casual, formal, plated]
- Kitchen cleanup after meals
- Organization and Decluttering
- Maintaining tidy spaces
- Organizing closets, drawers, etc.
- Managing household inventory
Personal Service:
- Morning service
- Prepare Dominant's coffee/breakfast
- Lay out clothing for day
- Present weather/schedule report
- Assist with dressing
- Other:
- Evening service
- Prepare dinner
- Draw bath or prepare shower
- Provide massage
- Lay out sleep attire
- Turn down bed
- Other:
- Grooming Assistance
- Hair brushing/styling
- Nail care
- Skin care routine
- Shaving assistance
- Other:
Erotic/Intimate Service:
- Available for Dominant's pleasure
- Oral service
- Massage with happy ending
- Serving Dominant's sexual needs
- Positions for use
- Boundaries:
Fetish Service:
- Foot worship and massage
- Boot/shoe worship and cleaning
- Body worship
- Sensual massage
- Other:
Administrative Service:
- Calendar management
- Appointment scheduling
- Correspondence handling
- Bill paying and organization
- Travel planning
- Other:
Special Projects:
Submissive may be assigned longer-term projects:
- Research and reports on topics of interest
- Planning events or trips
- Home improvement tasks
- Creative projects
- Other:
Protocols & Service Standards
Formal behaviors and quality expectations:
Service Protocols:
Addressing Dominant:
- In private: [Sir/Ma'am/Master/Mistress/Title]
- In public: [Name/subtle title]
- In writing:
Physical Protocols:
- Kneel when Dominant enters room
- Wait to be dismissed before leaving presence
- Walk behind Dominant (two steps back)
- Eyes downcast unless told otherwise
- Stand at attention when addressed
- Bow or curtsy when appropriate
- Other:
Speech Protocols:
- "Yes, Sir/Ma'am" "No, Sir/Ma'am"
- "Please" and "Thank you" always
- May speak freely / Only when spoken to
- Report task completion formally
- Request permission to ask questions
- Other:
Service Presentation:
- Task reports: [Verbal, written, both]
- Daily service summary: [Evening report]
- Posture while serving: [Graceful, attentive]
- Attitude: [Eager, humble, proud to serve]
Quality Standards:
Tasks will be completed to the following standard:
- Perfection expected
- High quality, attention to detail
- Good effort, minor flaws acceptable
- Learning phase, improvement expected
Inspection:
Dominant will inspect work: Daily / Weekly / Randomly
If work does not meet standards:
- Submissive redoes task
- Additional training provided
- Discussion of obstacles
- Potential consequences:
Efficiency Expectations:
- Tasks completed in reasonable time
- Time limits may be set for specific tasks
- Submissive works steadily and focused
- Breaks allowed as needed
- Submissive not rushed to burnout
Service Attire:
Required clothing during service:
- Nude / Lingerie / Formal / Casual / Uniform
- Collar: Always / During scenes / Special occasions
- Other accessories:
Service Attitude:
Submissive will maintain:
- Eagerness to please
- Gracious acceptance of feedback
- Pride in work well done
- Humility and respect
- Attentiveness to Dominant's needs
- Proactive service when appropriate
Task Management & Recognition
How service is assigned, tracked, and appreciated:
Task Assignment Methods:
- Verbal instructions each day
- Written task list (daily/weekly)
- Standing assignments (always responsible for X)
- Text/message assignments
- Submissive suggests tasks for approval
- Other:
Task Tracking:
- Submissive keeps journal of tasks completed
- Shared digital checklist
- Daily reports to Dominant
- Weekly review sessions
- No formal tracking needed
- Other:
Daily Task Example:
Morning:
- Wake at
- Prepare Dominant's coffee
- Tidy bedroom
- Prepare breakfast
- [Others]:
Throughout Day:
Evening:
- Prepare dinner
- Clean kitchen
- Service Dominant as needed
- Evening report
- [Others]:
Weekly Task Example:
Monday:
Tuesday:
Wednesday:
Thursday:
Friday:
Weekend:
Recognition & Rewards:
Dominant will acknowledge good service by:
- Verbal praise ("Good job," "Well done")
- Physical affection (hug, kiss, pat on head)
- Rewards and treats
- Special privileges
- Public recognition (in appropriate settings)
- Quality time together
- Sexual pleasure as reward
- Other:
Special Rewards for Exceptional Service:
Consequences for Incomplete/Poor Service:
- Discussion of what went wrong
- Redoing task to standards
- Additional practice/training
- Loss of privilege
- Appropriate discipline
- Understanding if genuine obstacle existed
- Other:
Performance Reviews:
Frequency: Weekly / Monthly / Quarterly
Review will cover:
- Tasks completed successfully
- Areas for improvement
- New skills to learn
- Adjustments to assignments
- Overall satisfaction (both parties)
- Goals for next period
Burnout Prevention:
- Submissive may request lighter load if overwhelmed
- Rest days built into schedule
- Service should enhance life, not consume it
- Regular check-ins about workload
- Vanilla time is important
- Self-care is non-negotiable
- Communication about capacity is required
Aftercare requirements Mandatory
Partner 1's aftercare needs
Partner 2's aftercare needs
Time and commitment
Tick the dynamic you agree on.
- 24/7 dynamic: The power exchange is part of everyday life, not only scenes, within the limits and protocols you agree on.
- Bedroom only: The dynamic applies only in intimate or sexual settings. Outside of that, you relate as equals.
- Scheduled scenes: You plan scenes in advance, with a set time, place and negotiation beforehand.
- Casual / as desired: Scenes happen when you both feel like it, with no fixed schedule. Each scene is still negotiated.
- Long distance: You live apart and maintain the dynamic through messages, calls, video and planned visits.
Mandatory safety protocols Non-negotiable
- Regular communication: partners check in regularly about comfort, boundaries and desires.
- Respect for safe words: safe words are honored immediately, without question.
- Aftercare: appropriate aftercare is provided after every scene.
- Respect for boundaries: all stated limits and boundaries are respected.
- Ongoing consent: consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
- No activities under the influence: no scenes while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
- Emergency procedures: both partners know the emergency contacts and procedures.
Signatures
By signing below, both parties confirm that they have read, understood and agree to everything in this agreement.
Partner 1:
Partner 2:
Important reminders
- This agreement can be changed at any time by mutual agreement.
- Review it regularly, for example every 3 to 6 months.
- Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
- Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
- Always put safety, consent and mutual respect first.