Relationship Agreement
Pet Play Contract
Date:
Owner / pet
This Pet Play Contract establishes a consensual relationship between an Owner (the caregiver and handler) and a Pet (the one who takes on an animal persona). This agreement acknowledges that pet play is a form of roleplay, stress relief, and alternative headspace that allows for playfulness, simplicity, and caregiving. This agreement is a communication tool and not a legally binding contract.
Purpose
The purpose of this contract is to define the pet play dynamic, including the pet's species and persona, training expectations, care routines, and boundaries. Both parties seek joy, connection, and fulfillment through this unique form of power exchange and roleplay.
Important legal notice
This document is a personal agreement between consenting adults. It is not a legally binding contract.
All activities must comply with local laws. Both parties must be at least 18 years old.
Parties involved
| Partner 1 Name: Date of birth: Contact: | Partner 2 Name: Date of birth: Contact: |
Core principles Mandatory
This agreement is based on the following principles:
- SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual)
- RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink)
- Enthusiastic, informed, ongoing consent
- The right to withdraw consent at any time
Safe words and signals Mandatory
| Red (stop immediately): | |
|---|---|
| Yellow (slow down or check in): | |
| Green (continue): |
Critical: Safe words must be respected immediately, without question or hesitation.
Hard limits
Partner 1's hard limits
Partner 2's hard limits
Activities
Activities that often come up in this dynamic. Tick what applies, cross out what does not and add notes or limits.
- Pet Persona Adoption: Pet takes on animal characteristics and behaviorsNotes and limits:
- Training & Commands: Owner trains pet in tricks and behaviorsNotes and limits:
- Feeding & Care: Owner feeds and cares for petNotes and limits:
- Petting & Affection: Physical touch and bondingNotes and limits:
- Collaring: Pet wears collar as symbol of ownershipNotes and limits:
- Leash Walking: Owner leads pet on leashNotes and limits:
- Play Time: Games and activities appropriate for pet typeNotes and limits:
- Grooming: Owner grooms and maintains pet's appearanceNotes and limits:
- Reward/Punishment: Positive reinforcement and correctionNotes and limits:
- Sleeping in Pet Space: Pet bed, cage, or designated areaNotes and limits:
- Non-Verbal Communication: Pet communicates through sounds and gesturesNotes and limits:
- Sexual Pet Play: Adult activities within pet dynamicNotes and limits:
- Other:
Toys and equipment
Tick what you want to use and note specific items or limits.
- Collar: Primary symbol of pet/owner relationshipNotes and limits:
- Leash: For walking and controlNotes and limits:
- Pet Ears/Tail: Visual representation of pet personaNotes and limits:
- Food/Water Bowls: For feeding timeNotes and limits:
- Pet Bed or Blanket: Designated sleeping/rest areaNotes and limits:
- Toys: Balls, squeaky toys, feathers (species appropriate)Notes and limits:
- Grooming Tools: Brush, comb for grooming sessionsNotes and limits:
- Cage/Kennel: Optional containment or safe spaceNotes and limits:
- Paw Mitts: Limit hand use for immersionNotes and limits:
- Treats: Rewards for good behaviorNotes and limits:
- Other:
Rules and protocols
Common rules for this dynamic. Keep, change or remove them as you agree.
- Pet will wear collar during pet play time
- Pet communicates in animal sounds/gestures (barks, meows, etc.) not words
- Pet walks on all fours or in species-appropriate manner
- Pet eats and drinks from designated bowls
- Pet asks for permission (in pet way) before getting on furniture
- Pet greets Owner with appropriate behavior (rubbing, jumping, etc.)
- Pet performs learned tricks when commanded
- Owner provides regular care, affection, and attention to pet
- Owner never leaves pet in bondage/restraints unattended
- Safe word can be used by pet at any time (spoken word, not barked)
- Pet play remains separate from human responsibilities
- Regular vet checks (relationship check-ins) monthly
- Additional rule:
Pet Persona & Characteristics
Defining the pet's species, personality, and behaviors:
Pet Species:
- Dog/Puppy
- Cat/Kitten
- Pony
- Fox
- Bunny/Rabbit
- Pig
- Other:
Pet Name:
Human name:
Pet name:
Pet Age:
- Puppy/Kitten (young, playful, energetic)
- Adult pet (trained, calmer)
- Senior pet (gentle, wise)
Pet Personality Traits:
- Playful and energetic
- Shy and timid
- Confident and bold
- Affectionate and cuddly
- Mischievous and bratty
- Obedient and eager to please
- Independent
- Lazy and sleepy
- Excitable
- Other:
Pet Behaviors (Species-Specific):
For Dogs/Puppies:
- Wagging tail (butt wiggle)
- Barking, whining, howling
- Fetching toys
- Rolling over
- Begging
- Licking Owner's hands/face
- Panting
- Other:
For Cats/Kittens:
- Meowing, purring, hissing
- Rubbing against Owner
- Kneading with hands/paws
- Chasing toys (laser pointer, string)
- Grooming self
- Arching back for pets
- Knocking things over playfully
- Other:
For Ponies:
- Neighing, whinnying
- Prancing and trotting
- High-stepping gait
- Tossing head/hair
- Bridling and harnessing
- Pulling cart/giving rides
- Hoof care (feet/boots)
- Other:
Physical Modifications for Pet Space:
- Ears (headband, clips)
- Tail (plug, clip-on, belt)
- Paws (mitts, gloves)
- Collar and tags
- Body paint/makeup
- Harness or body straps
- Hooves (for ponies)
- Muzzle or bit
- Other:
Training, Commands & Tricks
Owner's training program for pet:
Basic Commands:
- "Sit": Pet sits on floor
- "Stay": Pet remains in position
- "Come": Pet comes to Owner
- "Down": Pet lies on floor
- "Heel": Pet walks beside Owner
- "Speak": Pet makes animal sound
- "Quiet": Pet stops making sounds
- "Fetch": Pet retrieves thrown toy
- "Roll over": Pet rolls on ground
- "Shake": Pet offers paw/hand
Advanced Tricks:
- "Play dead"
- "Beg"
- "Dance" or "Prance"
- "Find it" (seek hidden treats)
- "Gentle" (take treat softly)
- "Wait" (delayed gratification)
- Other:
Command Signals:
Verbal commands: Yes / No
Hand signals: Yes / No
Clicker training: Yes / No
Whistle commands: Yes / No
Training Methods:
- Positive reinforcement (treats, praise, pets)
- Clicker training for correct behaviors
- Repetition and consistency
- Gentle correction for mistakes
- No punishment during training, only encouragement
- Training sessions: minutes, times per week
Rewards for Good Behavior:
- Verbal praise ("Good puppy/kitty!")
- Treats (agreed snacks/foods)
- Extra playtime
- Favorite toy
- Petting and physical affection
- Belly rubs
- Special privileges (furniture access, etc.)
- Other:
Correction for Bad Behavior:
- Stern "No" or "Bad pet"
- Removal of toy temporarily
- Time out in pet bed/area
- Ignored by Owner for brief time
- Loss of privilege
- No harsh punishment or hitting
- Redirection to correct behavior
- Other:
Training Goals:
Short-term goals (this month):
Long-term goals (this year):
Daily Care Routine & Pet Time Schedule
Owner's responsibilities and typical pet play routine:
When Pet Play Happens:
- Daily for hours
- Weekends only
- Evenings after work
- Scheduled scenes
- Whenever pet initiates (asks to play)
- 24/7 lifestyle
- Other:
Entering Pet Space:
Pet signals desire for pet time by:
Owner initiates pet time by:
Transition ritual: [Putting on collar, ears, getting into position, etc.]
Typical Pet Play Session:
- Greeting/Warm-up (10 minutes)
- Pet greets Owner with appropriate behavior
- Owner puts collar/ears/tail on pet
- Owner pets and talks to pet
- Pet settles into headspace
- Playtime (20 to 30 minutes)
- Fetch, chase, laser pointer, etc.
- Interactive play with Owner
- Pet expends energy
- Fun and bonding
- Training (10 to 15 minutes)
- Practice commands and tricks
- Reward successes
- Gentle correction as needed
- Mental stimulation for pet
- Quiet Time (15 to 20 minutes)
- Pet rests in bed or at Owner's feet
- Gentle petting and grooming
- Calm bonding time
- Pet may nap
- Feeding (if applicable)
- Pet eats from bowl
- Water provided
- Treats for good behavior
- Exiting Pet Space
- Owner removes collar/accessories
- Gentle transition discussion
- Aftercare and cuddles
- Return to human headspace
Daily Care Checklist:
- Morning greeting and pets
- Feed pet at designated times
- Provide fresh water
- Playtime and exercise
- Grooming session ( times per week)
- Training practice
- Bedtime routine
- Affection and attention throughout day
- Health monitoring (mood, energy, needs)
Grooming Routine:
- Brushing: times per week
- Bathing: times per month
- Nail care: As needed
- Ear cleaning (if wearing ears): As needed
- Checking collar fit: Weekly
- Other grooming:
Pet's Rest Area:
- Pet bed on floor
- Blanket in corner
- Cage/crate (door open or closed: )
- At foot of Owner's bed
- In Owner's bed (if good)
- Other:
Exiting Pet Space:
Pet can leave pet space by: [Removing collar, using safe word, asking Owner]
Owner brings pet out by: [Removing accessories, specific phrase, etc.]
Aftercare includes: [Talking about experience, cuddles, water, snacks]
Aftercare requirements Mandatory
Partner 1's aftercare needs
Partner 2's aftercare needs
Time and commitment
Tick the dynamic you agree on.
- 24/7 dynamic: The power exchange is part of everyday life, not only scenes, within the limits and protocols you agree on.
- Bedroom only: The dynamic applies only in intimate or sexual settings. Outside of that, you relate as equals.
- Scheduled scenes: You plan scenes in advance, with a set time, place and negotiation beforehand.
- Casual / as desired: Scenes happen when you both feel like it, with no fixed schedule. Each scene is still negotiated.
- Long distance: You live apart and maintain the dynamic through messages, calls, video and planned visits.
Mandatory safety protocols Non-negotiable
- Regular communication: partners check in regularly about comfort, boundaries and desires.
- Respect for safe words: safe words are honored immediately, without question.
- Aftercare: appropriate aftercare is provided after every scene.
- Respect for boundaries: all stated limits and boundaries are respected.
- Ongoing consent: consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
- No activities under the influence: no scenes while under the influence of drugs or alcohol.
- Emergency procedures: both partners know the emergency contacts and procedures.
Signatures
By signing below, both parties confirm that they have read, understood and agree to everything in this agreement.
Partner 1:
Partner 2:
Important reminders
- This agreement can be changed at any time by mutual agreement.
- Review it regularly, for example every 3 to 6 months.
- Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
- Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
- Always put safety, consent and mutual respect first.